Emotional Misreading

📝 Wednesday Story Prompt:

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Have you ever pushed someone away—not because they hurt you, but because it felt safer than being fully seen or truly loved? Maybe you started arguments out of nowhere.Maybe you pulled back just when things got close.Maybe you convinced yourself it wouldn’t last—so you ended it first. Tell us about a time when self-sabotage crept […]

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Self-Sabotage: The Silent Killer of Good Relationships

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You ask, “Why do all my relationships end the same way?”But what if it’s not the people you’re choosing—it’s the patterns you’re repeating? The Core Problem Self-sabotage is one of the most overlooked reasons good relationships fall apart. It doesn’t always look like cheating or lying.It shows up quietly—in your doubts, your defensiveness, your constant

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📝 Wednesday Story Prompt:

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Have you ever pushed away someone who was good for you—without knowing why? Maybe they were kind, consistent, emotionally present.But instead of feeling safe, you felt uneasy… bored… or even suspicious. Tell us about a time when healthy love felt uncomfortable.What did you do?What made you question it?And what do you now see that you

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When You Want Love But Push It Away

when you want love but push it away

You say you want real love—someone stable, safe, and present.But when that person shows up, you pull away, start fights, or feel restless.It makes no sense—until you look deeper. The Core Problem Many women unintentionally sabotage the very connection they long for. When love feels too healthy, calm, or unfamiliar, it can trigger discomfort rooted

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The Heat of the Moment Isn’t the Whole Truth

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You’ve probably done it before—sent a harsh message, ended a conversation, or stormed off because you felt deeply disrespected.But later, something doesn’t add up. The hurt still lingers, but so does the question:Did I get it wrong? The Core Problem One of the most common reasons relationships unravel is not betrayal or neglect—it’s emotional misreading.

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Why He’s Not the Problem: A Look at Emotional Projection

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“Every man I date turns out the same.”If you’ve ever said or thought this, pause.Because maybe the pattern you’re seeing isn’t about him—maybe it’s pointing to something within you. The Core Problem Many women fall into the trap of emotional projection: attributing our unprocessed emotions, insecurities, and fears onto our partners. Instead of recognizing an

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