Have you ever pushed someone away—not because they hurt you, but because it felt safer than being fully seen or truly loved?
Maybe you started arguments out of nowhere.
Maybe you pulled back just when things got close.
Maybe you convinced yourself it wouldn’t last—so you ended it first.
Tell us about a time when self-sabotage crept in.
What were you afraid of?
What did you do?
And what do you now understand that you couldn’t see before?
Your story could help another woman break the same silent pattern.
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