Our Origin
What Is Relationship Age?
A New Way to Measure Emotional Readiness
“Chronological age means nothing in relationships. What matters is your emotional readiness—and Relationship Age finally makes that measurable.”
— From the Bond Act Research Team
Snapshot: What Is It?
Relationship Age is a revolutionary self-assessment tool developed by the Bond Act team. It helps you measure your emotional maturity in relationships using a clear and relatable model—emotional age.
Instead of guessing where you stand, this tool gives you insight, clarity, and a path forward.
Why We Created It
Too many people enter relationships emotionally underdeveloped.
They’re grown in years—but immature in communication, accountability, and conflict resolution.
That’s where Relationship Age comes in.
It gives people a practical, shame-free way to know if they’re really ready—and what they need to grow.
What Does It Measure?
Relationship Age evaluates five emotional pillars:
🧘 Emotional Regulation
Can you pause and stay calm under pressure?🧾 Accountability
Can you take responsibility and own your part in conflict?💞 Empathy
Do you understand how your words and actions affect others?🗣️ Communication
Can you express your needs without blame or withdrawal?🪞 Self-Awareness
Are you honest about your own emotional patterns?
Emotional Age Bands
Based on your score, you’ll be placed in an emotional age range that reflects your current relationship habits:
👶 Childlike Reactivity
🧒 Adolescent Defensiveness
👩🎓 Emerging Maturity
👩⚖️ Grounded Accountability
🧘♀️ Relational Wisdom
Your age band isn’t a label—it’s a mirror that shows where you are and where you can grow.
How It Works
✅ You’ll answer questions based on real-life relationship scenarios:
How do you respond to emotional triggers?
Can you apologize sincerely?
Do you listen without interrupting?
📈 Your answers are scored and mapped to a Relationship Age between 0 and 100.
The result? A clear picture of where you stand—and what’s missing.
Why It’s Revolutionary
✅ Simple, fast, and revealing
✅ Gives you a measurable score
✅ Works hand-in-hand with Emo-Logic
✅ Recommends personalized resources
✅ Turns self-reflection into growth
It’s not just awareness—it’s a blueprint for emotional elevation.
Why It Matters for Africa
Across Africa, broken relationships and family trauma are quietly shaping futures.
We don’t have time to wait for slow emotional learning.
Relationship Age is instant insight. Immediate growth.
It empowers anyone—anywhere—to see themselves clearly and start healing today.
Ready to Know Your Relationship Age?
Discover where you really stand—and start growing toward the love and stability you deserve.